Saturday, May 31, 2008
Thursday, May 29, 2008
Wednesday, May 28, 2008
To all of you who are hurting...may this song minister to you and bring hope.
I'm especially thinking of and praying for my dear friends tonight...Paige, Cindy, and Kelly. You know why...and so does He.
LESS LIKE SCARS by Sara Groves
It's been a hard year
But I'm climbing out of the rubble
These lessons are hard
Healing changes are subtle
But every day it's
Less like tearing, more like building
Less like captive, more like willing
Less like breakdown, more like surrender
Less like haunting, more like remember
And I feel you here
And you're picking up the pieces
Forever faithful
It seemed out of my hands, a bad situation
But you are able
And in your hands the pain and hurt
Look less like scars and more like
Character
Less like a prison, more like my room
It's less like a casket, more like a womb
Less like dying, more like transcending
Less like fear, less like an ending
And I feel you here
And you're picking up the pieces
Forever faithful
It seemed out of my hands, a bad situation
But you are able
And in your hands the pain and hurt
Look less like scars
Just a little while ago
I couldn't feel the power or the hope
I couldn't cope, I couldn't feel a thing
Just a little while back
I was desperate, broken, laid out, hoping
You would come
And I need you
And I want you here
And I feel you
And I know you're here
And you're picking up the pieces
Forever faithful
It seemed out of my hands, a bad, bad situation
But you are able
And in your hands the pain and hurt
Look less like scars
And more like
Character
A few months ago, my friend Drewe Llyn brought some SCRUMPTIOUS yummies to a homeschool function. They were so good, several people asked for the recipe. Here's what Drewe Llyn sent out:
1 pound sausage browned
1 cup Bisquick (or Bisquick-like mix)
1 can cheddar cheese soup
Mix all together and bake @ 350 degrees in miniature muffin pans.
Drewe Llyn said, "the [muffins] I brought today were some from a 5x batch I made yesterday. I used 5 lbs Great Value Pork Sausage, 5 cups store brand biscuit mix, 3 cans Nacho cheese soup, and 2 cans cheddar cheese soup. The 5x batch made approximately 168 muffins! Don't try baking them in regular size muffin tins; they'll be raw in the middle."
No, they are not low fat, high fiber, all natural, 100% organic, or low cholesterol, but they are mighty fine...I can testify to that!
Tuesday, May 27, 2008
Dorothy Sayers
Monday, May 26, 2008
This morning our family spent time talking about Memorial Day and what it means in order that our children will have a better understanding and respect for the brave soldiers, and their families, who not only served in their living, but also willing served through their dying in all too many cases.
To all who are making the sacrifice today, we thank you. For those of you who have lost a loved one in the line of duty and honor, our prayers are with you.
Our thoughts are especially with my mom today as this is her first Memorial Day since my step-dad, Roy Clark, passed away. Though Roy wasn't killed while fighting for our country, he spent the majority of his life in the military and was both wounded and imprisoned during military conflict. He was an active soldier during WWII, Korea, and Vietnam. We are grateful to him for all he did and miss him. He was a true American hero.
Sunday, May 25, 2008
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Saturday, May 24, 2008
Thursday, May 22, 2008
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Here's how Casey tells it:
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I want to tell you a quick story about how I got on the World Race. I picked now as the time to tell you for no good reason at all. The preface is that, at training camp in April, we had a 'Spiritual Retreat' and focused on burning bridges. Any bridge that was going to hold us back, back to the life we lived, back to anything that kept us from walking ever more closely with God, we were to burn. When Ben "I play mind games with you" Messner introduced it, I knew immediately what my bridge was.
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My bridge was fear. My story is that I was back in Hattiesburg in January when I got the email I had been accepted to the World Race. I was at a time in my life where I had no idea what was next. I grabbed my best friend, the amazing Mr. Flood, and we went to the porch to talk through it. I began talking and spend the next little while just hashing through things - pros, cons, logistics, the future - you name it, I verbalized it. The indispensible Mr. Flood took all this quietly, as he knew I was going through some important things and just needed some ears. I eventually stalled on the point that the World Race is assuredly the scariest thing I could think of, especially considering I would be going from not knowing what was next in my own backyard of life to not knowing what was next in a dozen different places around the world with 30 brand new people. Fear, I had concluded, was the one and only aspect that I wouldn't be able to rectify; and it would be my most serious obstacle.
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This is where the essential Mr. Flood, the wise mountain sage that he is, spoke his only words. "You've got to come up with something better than fear." That was it. That was all he needed to say. I had to look outside myself and into the words of the Father through a friend to finish clearing all the hurdles. That wasn't just the turning point, it was the point. After that, I had nothing. And so here I am; living out of a backpack, traveling the world, spreading the Good News of an amazing God and the Son that died for you, and learning more about myself and the God of Glory than I ever thought possible. Why am I doing this? Because I love God and He loved me first. How am I able to do this? Because His grace is new every morning and He and I burned the bridge of fear.
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To read more about Casey's year of world racing and to see where God is taking him now, visit his blog, CASEY BAREFIELD, A WORK IN PROGRESS...
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Wednesday, May 21, 2008
One of contemporary Christian music star Steven Curtis Chapman's six children was killed this afternoon when she was struck by a car said to be driven by her teenage brother in the driveway of the family's Williamson County home.
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No charges are expected, she said. The accident was witnessed by two other children; the entire family was home at the time, McPherson said.
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
A GRAND PRODUCTION
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"The truth and beauty of the gospel expose our idol-myths as feeble substitutes and garish counterfeits. And the power of the gospel enables us to break free from their enslaving and destructive grasp. Indeed, as our deliverer and liberator, Jesus is freeing us for the great adventure of living as characters in and carriers of God's archetypal Story of all stories. Its like being taking from starring in your own self produced, 8 mm black and white home movies to playing one of the hobbits in the grand production of The Return of the King."
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Scotty Smith, Restoring Broken Things
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Monday, May 19, 2008
Seth Barnes, of Adventures in Missions, wrote this on his blog:
There is an implied criticism for short-term missionaries when would-be supporters sometimes ask this question:"Why do you want to go overseas? There is plenty of poverty right here in the U.S."
Give such critics their due. They may be motivated by compassion or by a sense of stewardship. Who hasn't seen the homeless on our cities' streets and felt as though something needed to be done? Going overseas can seem like a costly extravagance when the need is great right here in our backyard.
That said, anyone who has seen the great swarms of hungry children picking through the mountains of trash outside Manila or Maputo can't help but be struck by the thought, "This is a whole different level of poverty. These people are just barely surviving."
When You're Down in the Dumps from Brady on Vimeo.
At least in America there is a safety net. There is food. Any large city has multiple homeless shelters [Though our metro area only has one, small shelter for families with children]. Emergency rooms will take you in if you are desperately sick. The poverty line for a family of four is defined as $21,201. Contrast that with the 1.2 billion people in the world living on less than a dollar a day or the 2.5 billion classified as living in extreme poverty. That is a standard of living that is more than twenty times poorer than those classified as poor in America.
At its worst, someone asking the question, "Why don't you reach out to poor Americans first?" is parochial or nationalistic. They value a poor human being in America more than a poor human living elsewhere. Because you're American, you belong to some sort of really big club of special people.
God classifies the poor not by nationality, but by their ability to care for themselves - widows and orphans being first in line for help.
Perhaps the best response to someone who is just looking for an excuse to not support you is to assume the best and challenge them: "I absolutely agree, we should be doing something about poor Americans first. Let's start here in our hometown. Let's find a family and make a difference in their lives - waddya say?"
For more of Seth's writings, visit his blog at: http://www.sethbarnes.com/
Sunday, May 18, 2008
Thank you again for all your prayers and emails of love and support.
With a grateful heart,
Elysa
PLEASE PRAY FOR OUR PUPPY
Our puppy Indie followed a cat out into the paddock and got hurt by one of the horses. We don't know if she was stepped on or kicked but she's hurt and it looks like it could be very serious. I'm about to leave now and take her to the emergency vet.
The kids and us grown-ups surely would appreciate your prayers.
Thanks in advance,
Elysa
Matthew 10:29 What is the price of two sparrows—one copper coin? But not a single sparrow can fall to the ground without your Father knowing it.
Saturday, May 17, 2008
Friday, May 16, 2008
SOMEONE'S BABY
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Lisa-Marie Black and her family have been living in Swaziland ministering primarily to orphans and widows affected by the HIV/AIDS pandemic and discipling short-term Adventures in Missions missionaries. They've just returned to America and Lisa-Marie wrote a blog post that in so many ways communicates what I've been struggling with since I left Swaziland nearly 4 months ago.
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"Ever left your crying toddler in the Church nursery, or your Kindergarten student on the first day of school, or even a pre-teen at a summer camp? They look up at you with "Please don't leave me, Mommy" tears brimming, lower lip protruding, arms reaching out to for you to pick them up. You know there is nothing you can do; the time has come and you have to leave, but you feel a little nauseated. And the second you get to your car, you let the hot tears flow.
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My last week in Nsoko felt just like that. I did not have a choice; I had to leave these precious little ones. They didn't understand, and in many ways, neither did I. They tried to crawl in my car after my final goodbye. I kept explaining over and over, that I was coming back, but everyone says that to them, and most never do. Maternal instinct is a powerful thing; I still check on my all my kids in the middle of the night (even the ones that are taller than me!), and I think about the Children of the Dirt all the time.
My last meeting with the GoGo's, the elders, the Chiefs, and the teachers were also filled with tears and goodbyes. The one thing they all asked before Gary and I left was: "Please, don't forget us."
Back in America, I see the economy feels less than booming. I feel the stress as people strive to maintain the American dream, and I know that "giving" is down more than ever. I also understand that people feel overwhelmed. I am struggling with that myself since returning to this great and wonderful nation. I know my feelings are stronger for these little ones because I have held them, and I know their names.
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Click HERE to give to the Nsoko fund.
Thursday, May 15, 2008
NEVER BECOME BARREN
"The true secret to all ministry is spiritual power. It is not man's genius, or man's intellect, or man's energy; but simply the power of the Spirit of the God of the Gospel. 'Not by might nor by power, but by my Spirit, saith the Lord of hosts (Zech.iv.6) It is well for all ministers (and believers) to bear this ever in mind. It will sustain the heart and give constant freshness to their ministry (and lives). A ministry which flows from abiding dependence upon the Holy Spirit can never become barren. If a man is drawing on his own resources, he will soon run dry. It matters not what his powers may be, or how extensive his reading, or how vast his stores of information; if the Holy Spirit be not the spring and power of his ministry, it must, sooner or later, lose its freshness and its effectiveness. How important then, that all who minister (and live) in the gospel, should lean continually and exclusively on the power of the Holy Spirit. He knows what souls need, and He can supply it. But he must be trusted and used. It will not do to lean partly on self and partly on the Spirit."
C H Macintosh, Notes on the Book of Numbers, 1861
Tuesday, May 13, 2008
...planting watermelon seedlings
...numerous sinus/allergy OTCs and natural remedies
...facebook frustrations
...praying for friends and family
...piles of laundry and loads of dishes
...making job lists
...emails, forums, and blogs
...too much stuff and too many piles
...sparkly blue toenail polish
...searching for a babysitter
...fruit flies
...a new air conditioner in the master bedroom
...history with the oldest four
...hummus, salsa, and blue corn tortilla chips
...losing my patience
...asking forgiveness
...dark chocolate M&M's
...B's sprained ankle
...afternoon naps (for me and the babies)
...missing Swaziland
...not making it to a friend's child's graduation
...taking the kids swimming and walking laps around the pool for nearly an hour
...Latin prayer said before our supper
...honey mustard pork loin and a neighbor's homegrown turnip greens
...no complaints about afore mentioned greens
...kids cleaning the kitchen
...enjoying time with our neighbor Lillie
...loading the much-appreciated dishwasher
...introducing my husband to Coldplay
...snuggling with the little ones and relaxing with hubby under the flip-flop groovy lights
Monday, May 12, 2008
I feel awful. Friday, a sinus/allergy attack hit me full-force. I fluctuate from just feeling mildy turr'ble to downright barely functioning. Right now, I'm just a little above the barely functioning mode. I'm not going to try to be funny or insightful or creative here, because if I keep on typing, I'm just going to slip into the "my life is so terrible and I feel awful and don't you just feel sorry for me" and I know that a seasonal sinus attack is not really that wretched in relation to truly tragic things going on in the world today.
I'm stopping.
This is getting mauldlin....or however that's spelled. Who can spell with their ears hurting and nose dripping and children actually demanding their mother take care of them.
As I said. I'm stopping....
Oh, if you think about it, I'd appreciate your prayers.
Saturday, May 10, 2008
Friday, May 09, 2008
"I do not at all understand the mystery of grace --- only tht it meets us where we are but does not leave us where it found us."
Anne Lamott
Thursday, May 08, 2008
Yesterday I was really feeling bad. I absolutely did NOT feel like leading children's worship and teaching my preschool class at our church. But, since I wasn't contagious, I just had to go. I couldn't wimp out of this one.
Then once I was at church, I had the children pray for me and let them take turns helping me lead worship. They enjoyed it and it gave them the chance to not just receive, but give back to God and to each other.
After we split up into smaller groups according to ages, I ended up with a very small class, only 4 kids (2 of them were mine), so it was very manageable. We talked about Naomi and Ruth, Mother's Day, caring for their mother's ...especially when they're old and hungry ;D , and I helped them decorate candles I got from Kroger's for a quarter a piece.
God is faithful all the time. He really will make it possible for me to do whatever He's called me to do....especially where His little ones are concerned. After all, He told us so clearly to let the little children come to Him, do not hold them back. In no way should we do anything to cause them to stumble. And we must become like children to truly understand and receive His grace and love and walk a life of faith.
I praise God for the chances He gives me daily to minister not only to my children but other children as well.
But I have to ask His forgiveness for the times that I treat this as a chore, a burden, instead of a blessed privilege and calling.
Wednesday, May 07, 2008
PLEASE PRAY FOR ME TONIGHT
I'm leading the children's church in worship then teaching the 4, 5, and 6 year old class all by myself for about an hour and a half. I'm feeling completely out of it right now. All I want to do is eat chocolate and get in the bed. Please pray for me. I know I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me and I really need that strength right now.
Thanks.
Tuesday, May 06, 2008
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Health care
Community development
Spiritual discipleship
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Monday, May 05, 2008
DANCING ON THE EDGE OF A CLIFF
"If you are reading this because you count yourself a good person and good people read religious books, let me give you a warning; You are dancing on the edge of a cliff. One day, maybe soon, you're going to fall off. Not only that, but when you fall off, its going to hurt really bad. I just wanted you know, and I didn't want you to say that nobody ever told you. I just told you..Feeling ashamed and knowing Christ far surpasses begin good and never thirsting for mercy and forgiveness."
Steve Brown, A Scandalous Freedom
Sunday, May 04, 2008
MORE ON CHILDREN'S HOPECHEST & ETHIOPIA
For more information or to contact Tom Davis, visit his blog at http://www.tomdavis.typepad.com/ .
Just a short while after posting T's prayer request, he found Ki-Kat! God is so good. I thank Him for teaching my little fellow to trust Him with all his cares.
Now if his mom would only remember to do this every time.
Saturday, May 03, 2008
Four year old T's falling apart, stuffed, black panther, Ki-Kat, is missing. He's on the prowl somewhere unknown. T came to me just a few minutes ago and asked if I would send out an email to everyone I know telling them to pray for him to find Ki-Kat. I asked if I could post it at my blog instead and he okayed that plan.
Oh...and he said to tell you that there is a reward of a quarter from Daddy's bank for whoever finds his straying "baby brother".
Friday, May 02, 2008
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My two oldest boys just walked in as I was once again watching the video of THAT'S HOW YOU KNOW from Disney's Enchanted. They started talking about how on Mother's Day I want to watch this movie again with my hubby and how we'll be kissing and dancing and being all romantic.
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My oldest son D, who just turned 11, started saying how Dad would be dancing all funky and he demonstrated a goofy, disco style. My 9 year old son P said "Mom will make him dance nicely if she wants. She can make anybody dance nice."
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Awwww-w-w-w....so sweet.
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And yes, I adore Enchanted. After all, my son P and friend Christi both say I AM Giselle!
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And another aww-w-w-w-www. We were just looking at the Youtube list of other Enchanted videos and my son P saw "Ever, Ever, After" and said "Mom and Dad live happily ever after".
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Happy little sniff-sniffs and sighs over here at Graceland...a place far better than even any fairy tale setting.
Thursday, May 01, 2008
http://www.bordersmedia.com/features/video/simon_holdoutyourheart.asp
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HOLD OUT YOUR HEART
Oh my boy, what have you done?
Did you go out surfing on a frozen sea?
Did you scare the livin' daylights out of me?
Did you go too far to drive away the demons?
Did you go too far to know what love really means?
Did you imagine it was more cause she went away first
Or did you force her hand to renew your thirst?
Well if you ever want an endless night
Or you need a moon and stars to shine
Just hold out your heart my darling
Hold out your heart my darling
Hold out your heart
And I will give you some of mine
Oh my girl, what have you done?
Is it something we can't even talk about?
Did you silence me, remove me from your faith?
Did you make me all but a stranger to your love?
Did you look right through me
Below me and above?
Did you try to ignore me, make me all but lost?
Did you cloud up the sky when you needed me most?
Well if you ever want an endless night
And you need the moon and stars to shine
Just hold out your heart my darling
Hold out your heart my darling
Hold out your heart
And I will give you all of mine
It's gonna be fine
It's gonna be fine, just fine
Just hold out your heart my darling
Just hold out your heart my darling
Hold out your heart
And I will give you all of mine